#mum and dad are at it again
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and she will do it again
i only contribute with quality content (that's like three months overdue)
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the way I crave a parent who, not only loves me, but likes me, and notices me is so so embarrassing
#my heart aches when i think of the few good childhood memories i have with my parents#i want the mum who played snowman with me after a bath when i was covered in talcum powder#i want the mum who would hold me and not get mad at me when i cried#i want the dad who. actually i dont think i have a good memory of just me and my dad#im sick of the parents who cancel on me and forget about me and refuse to listen when i speak#im sick of being scared and alone and needing parents I'll never see again- parents ive never actually had#im homesick for a love i never really had#bpd#actually bpd#bpd safe#bpd thoughts#bpd vent#bpd blog#bpd splitting#bpd diary#actually borderline#borderline thoughts#borderline blog#borderline personality disorder#borderline vent#eupd#actually eupd#emotionally unstable personality disorder#mother issues#father issues#parent issues#family issues
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i hate the phrase "you're perfect just the way you are". life is fluid and changing and in constant motion. growth is beauty and beauty is perfection and you want me to stay stagnant and still and unchanging because i'm "perfect the way i am?"
#i heard my dad saying this to my mum when she said she wanted to lose weight and i immediately was like Erm#i love you dad but never say that again.#thoughts ୨𖹭୧#girlblogging#it girl#wonyoungism#girlhood#pink pilates princess#female insanity#girly tumblr#this is what makes us girls#girly stuff#im just a girl#dream girl#girlcore#girlworld#pink girl#pink blog#girly girl#girl things#girl thoughts
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Okay, I feel like such an idiot because I accidentally deleted the ask haven't cried about it yet though so that's a win, but someone asked me if I thought Mechi and Kwahu's long hair, coffee-fueled all-nighters, and work surrounding complex machinery would ever result in disasters or terrible, embarrassing haircuts.
The answer is yes! I think these two dumbasses get their hair caught in everything all the time, but they're too proud to cut it, so they just take the machines apart and then painstakingly put them back together again every time there's an accident.
For your viewing pleasure, other places where Mechi's utter disregard for shop safety and OSHA regulations is discussed: here and here
#I'M SO SORRY FOR DELETING YOUR ASK!!#I feel so bad about it I'm sorry#don't stop sending asks tho#I love drawing 'em#asks#rip deleted ask T.T#gracie plays#rimworld#A Mechanitor's Message#art#my art#traditional art#rimworld art#unpolished art#at least Kwahu is having a good time#The Jones' boys love their hair too much to cut it off#they'd rather just take apart an entire complicated machine and reassemble it than snip a single strand of hair#Yamka is the only Jones' family member who is content with short hair#Lapu (Mechi's dad) and Squashbug (Mechi's mum) both have long hair too#Lapu's hair is a bit shorter than Mechi's#and Squashbug's is waaay longer#she keeps hers braided a bit like Kwahu#I hope the rest of Mechi's family makes an appearance sometime#I wanna draw themmmm#thanks for the ask!!#sorry again that I deleted it T.T#have an awesome day <3 <3
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ok yall
i want you guys to say something NICE about Meredith
i know she isn't the most pleasant person around (neither is simon but people STILL like him for some reason)
but there has to be SOMETHING you like about her/gen
#horrid henry#silly simon aka henrys dad#morbid meredith aka henrys mum#horrid henry (character)#perfect peter (character)#listen i need something for her ok??/gen#t thanks for reading!!#again thanks!!
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#So rn my parents are overseas at this gathering with family friends#And one of them got married + had a kid 11 weeks ago#All of this in the span of less than a year btw#And he’s 15 years older than me but rlly fun etc the kind of guy that feels at most 6-7 years older yk#And it feels wildddd cuz he was the rlly like mischievous (?) Kind of guy in our friend group#and it felt a bit weird to know he was expecting a kid since I found out a few months back but today my mum told me her name and everything#And I’m feeling super weird again like I can’t imagine him as a serious responsible dad buckling down yk#But also he can be serious when he needs to be so that coupled with his sense of humour means he’s going to be a great dad in sure#But it’s making me rethink whether or not I want to have kid(s)#maybe it’s just vanity but I feel like pregnancy would rlly wreck my body both looks and health wise#Like that is 9 months of commitment idk if I can handle it 😭😭😭#but sometimes i daydream abt what it would be like to have kids with the guy im 90% sure I’ll be marrying in like 7 years#and it makes me feel soooooo. like I want to do all that with him#and I feel like he would be level headed enough to help me through wtv insecurity or anxiety I’m feeling now#Idk idk#personal
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Every time the crystalised discussion on twitter comes back and they get to Lloyd's issues with his father i want to freaking rip my hair out
"Lloyd's in the wrong" "Lloyd was an ass" (<something I literally just saw)
God forbid a child hurt by their parent BE HURT. BE UPSET.
#LLOYD was an ass???? um. have you seen his father?????#i hate it so much i hate it so much i hate it so much#i want to throw up#why do you people not get it#do you need to have a shitty parent yourself to get it.#my mum has never tried to kill me but i get it !!#i WISH i could go off at her like lloyd did!#or wohld i be an ass for that too? hm?#despite the years of hurt caused? hm?#shut the hell up all of you i#this is so stupid to be angry about but lloyd being allowed to br angry at his dad meant a lot to me#this feels so relatable to me#so personal#why do people refuse to see that lloyd has been hurt by his fathers actions again and again#him having issues woth his father isnt even new to crystalised!#remember in s4 when je said something about 'walking out on us again'???#nooo probably not because that man is aaaaalways perfect and the best ever!#i dont know where im going with this im just upset and annoyed and this always happens#i need to continue getting readynfor work.#ignore me#vent#i guess.
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lucifer acts like he's the type of guy who'd be into dark comedy or high-brow satire, and he is to some extent, but he in fact prefers to watch michael mcintyre walk around on stage going "wooo wooo" pretending he's hoovering
#lucifer live at the apollo enjoyer. is this comprehensible to anyone not from the uk#it's the wine mum + exhausted dad in him#they make him enjoy stand-up about the intricacies of domestic life#of course he doesn't react outwardly but inside he's wheezing#obey me lucifer#misc thoughts#i've found that mcintyre is quite the polarising figure (at least among my peers)#some of them think he's adorable and others find him incredibly annoying#i'm not fully in either camp myself... i think he's harmless and quite funny sometimes but he's not always my cup of tea#some of his jokes just go on for waaaay too long esp. the ones where he's just Making Noises#i love Making Noises but michael please that's enough. the joke was funny two minutes again you don't need to keep doing it#i feel like normally this would annoy the hell out of lucifer too#but upon sitting down to watch stand-up all his usual sternness disappears and he just becomes a tired mum on a friday night
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Babysitting my cat because my mum thinks she will "get lonely and bored and depressed" if she is home alone for one day
#i think its sweet that mum doesnt want her to be alone (back in the day she at least had another cat to hang out with)#so she gets me or my dad to come hang out with her when she has a long day at work :3#although im sure cami can survive a day alone but its not a lot of effort for me and since i have the time rn i do it#anyway look at her big green alien eyes isnt she adorable#sorry the photos are blurry shes not a great model... every time i get the camera to focus she moves again 🙈#mine#my cats#camaro#i think thats her tag? will check later
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my family piano keeps playing notes by itself. it’s locked and the key is missing so we can’t find out why
#my dad first started hearing it a while ago and then I heard it a month ago or so when I was alone with my nephew#and then a few days ago it did it when I was alone and then again quietly when I was with my mum and she said “I didn’t hear it”#and straight after she said that it did it again but louder..#l
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family sentai big brothers - an observation
#fiveman#magiranger#gogov#gaku - thoughtful/placid/beloved aniki#makito - romantic/nurturing/beloved aniki#matoi - bastard#i kid lmao i fucking love matoi so much this is a matoi stan account my boy has done nothing wrong in his life ever#ANYWAY#i have so many feelings about these boys its not funny#gaku lost both his parents but he always had arthur#he shouldered a lot of the emotional burden but he was never “left to raise his siblings”#makito lost his dad young and became “the man of the house” but again - he always had his mum#he never had to be 'dad' - at least not until he was already an adult#BUT MATOI#matoi's parents left. they left and he didnt know if or when either of them were going to come back.#so to deal with it he held on to the family he has left and he holds on too tight and he suffocates them but he's doing his fucking BEST#i will defend matoi until the day i die tbh#2023 art tag
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gator tillman sitting in his little room with his clown art and reptile tank and titty posters and handcuffs attached to the bedpost, sad little hutch in his shoulders as he whispers that his dads an asshole, no way anyones hearing over the music
wet silly little guy im obsessed
#joe keery u have done it again#im invested#like he sucks - hes right wing and he sucks#but damn if he isn't interesting too#gator tillman#fargo season 5#just a boy in his room hating his dad#that's some good shit#trying to prove himself since him mum left#ughhhhhh#this handcuffs are going in his wrist i just know it#joe kerry
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The comically sappy urge to randomly reach out to him and ask to fall asleep on call again cos even tho that stuff scares me it's soothing when it's with him
Idk I used to have a very specific way of seeing things until he pranced along omfg..HE MADE ME LIKE CHRISTMAS he already knows I kinda like Christmas but I liked it even more after last Christmas. I was making a gingerbread house and he INSISTED on seeing it but I wanted it to be just right and at that time I wos with my mum and she bought SOME SHITTY BRAND AND IT ALL FELL APART SO I THREW IT OUT AND HE STILL WONT LET IT GO?? He also used to make daily hot chocolates and he'd show me like. That's now a holiday I look forward to. Wtf. It's also foreign for me to like certain things about myself but he makes me genuinely like myself and love myself onfg. I sent him a picture of the day I got my bass and I was holding it AND ACCORDING TO HIM HE FOUND IT CUTE HOW I "Stood there like I wasn't trying to look proud but I definetly was" HOW DO YOU TELL THAT FROM A PICTURE I NEED HIM DEAD. I was proud though that bass is my life
Idk we've had our ups and downs and I can tell it's all true love cos we always come back with a strong I love you.
Shakes my head..only thing is im not actually dating him, not rn anyway cos my mental health is wavered with where I'm living so now I have to wait for college and really jump in and woo him. I'm gonna adjust to college, figure out some life stuff then try and ask him out TWHEHEH 😝‼️ He'll say yes cos we're both in love so I'm just...heh...that good..
#IK THATS A PERSONAL RAMBLE#personal asf#but he's on my mind again#He makes me kick my feet#Theres even hints of him in my art#honestly#hes my muse#He's the prettiest man I've ever laid eyes on#Essentially and if he was a dork like me hed get it but hes my personal Dorian Gray#and im his Basil#Longing and pining forbidden gay love#If I could I'd capture his beauty on a canvas as magnificent as the Mona Lisa#Heeee's myyy MOOMIN#And my 2D#and whatever else fictional couple I said we were before#there was a time I was up around 5 am just sending fictional couples and going#“can this be us. please”#The mum and dad from Ponyo was one#Im the dad..hes the magnificent mum#how did I even score him#hes so sweet and perfect and IM RAMBLING AH.#LIKE ALL MY FRIENDS LOVE HIM#MY FAMILY LIKES HIM TOO!!#And my cousin likes him so I KNOW hes a keeper#My little brother fucks with him too a bit
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#thinking about death again bc my dad texted an update on my mum#apparently she got a blood transfusion and threw up. thrilling stuff. but it just nudges at my head#bc it just makes me think. when shes gone its going to leave a trace. the outline of a person#i dont kno why i find that so upsetting. i just think about all the half completed scrapbooks that will whither away in my sisters old room#and it makes me cry. shell leave behind her incomplete scrapbooks. half tumbled rocks. containers of sea glass and lucky stones. digital#conversation thatll never be responded to. shoes and clothes#and memories. evidence of of a life no longer there to live it#and it just makes me sad i guess. i dunno. theres something sad about a project that will never be finished#a project doomed to be forgotten because it was only ever in the care of one person#but thats how it goes. what is is. nothing to be done about it but feel that sadness#i dunno. my head is full of static and frustration for unrelated reasons#but death pokes at my head during the day and i lose my already unsteady focus in an effort not to cry#im tired and sad and wishing my medication was working better#shes not even dead yet. im pulling a roman r0y and pre grieving. except for reals#unrelated
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something people dont talk about is that losing a pet can be genuinely traumatic
#like ive been through some shit#there's stuff that i cry about if i try to talk about it#i havent told many people about this stuff like very few people#my parents and super close friends and thats pretty much it#but like. shit losing a cat is so fucking hard#mum suggested that MAYBE theres a SLIGHT possibility that dad's house has mould#and i started sobbing IMMEDIATELY because i used to live in a house with mould and that caused my first cat to have a kidney failure and she#died#and i currently have two cats#now my first cat was pretty old when we lived there#and she mightve had health issues when we got her#and she was like. an adult cat.#but my current cats?#one of them is like 3 and the other is 1. theyre basically kittens.#pablo im pretty sure IS a kitten#and if they were to die because our house has mould i would be so devestated#like i was already devestated about midnight but if that happened again i couldnt handle it#we didn't get another cat for like a year because dad just couldn't process the fact that she was gone#it's so scary losing a cat and i dont know what i would do if i found out that one of them got sick because of our house#i dunno it's just. really traumatizing sometimes.
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important question for yall
do you guys think people mischaracterize henry and peter in fanfics
hell do yall think they mischaracterize simon and meredith
or is that just me
#horrid henry#silly simon aka henrys dad#morbid meredith aka henrys mum#silly simon#morbid meredith#perfect peter (character)#perfect peter#horrid henry (character)#t thanks for reading!!#again thanks!!
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